Y companionship can be good & bad?

Ok, enough of those post about my studies and assignment, let's talk something about life. As we stepped into the early twenty of our life, some must have realize that something is missing in their other "department". What I meant by "department"? Well this department is called "Love Department". I'm sure many out there envy those who had another opposite partner to accompany with whether in school or outside. They often voice out that how they hope to get one as time is ticking away every minutes and seconds and it won't be long that they hit another milestone titled "30".

Well, fair enough, I was in their situations 2.5 years ago. I was still in polytechnic then and always wanted to have one but don't have the courage to do so. The word "courage" is a taboo to most guys as always we see the girls out there but we dare not to approach them as either we are not the same class or they are strangers. I happened to met mine during my NS days and she happened to be my secondary school friend. I wouldn't have the courage to approach a stranger mainly is that I wouldn't dare to.

The probability of having a relationship is higher when we know someone know. Both will have more things to discuss and it wouldn't feel as wired since both had knew each other. On the hand, having a relationship doesn't mean you can just let it be. It requires both parties effort to make a relationship grows if not it will affect each other if things don't work out. Worse, if both of you are in the same class, both will feel like they are strangers even though they knew each other.

If someone want to have a relationship, is best to evaluate whether they are able to commit as well as to sacrifice some of the stuff which you normally do. A balance in your life will result if you can manage ur relationship, studies and careers which is a challenge not only for you but ur partner as well.

All the best!